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hello,
seeking relationship advice

all started when i first entered the college,apple (guy1)was very fond of me as a friend..he was so close to me..he loved me secretly without expressing or telling me..while i liked tomato(guy2)and was close to him …apple proposed me and i rejected.he took it personal with tomato on why he was close to me….apple talked a while later..he became good friends..many fights held with apple..while i was still close to tomato..

one evening apple took me for a long drive and I trusted him as a friend…there,he taught me how to drive ..it was all fun until ..he stopped the car to have a deep conversation about the relationship…he asked me “why don’t you like me”I replied “I don’t feel this way”..he started to grab my waist and kiss me hard…when I tried to get away..I wasn’t comfortable..I cried to let me go …I told him to leave me ,all he said was”it’s between us and I love you”

without my permission he considered me as his girlfriend

I couldn’t open it up to anyone else..not even tomato who was so close to me

Apple started to physically be with me ,a week later…Apple fought tomato and showed some pictures (which I don’t know)to tomato ..making him say that I will never talk to avocado (me) and disturb you guys (while tomato liked me a lotttttt) ..

I was framed,”oh that girl does double game..she was with 2 guys at the same time.

1 month later tomato talked..but he never disclosed what apple showed him.

🙏please give advice 
I am in a confusion whether ..I am the one who is mistaken here or is the other 2 guys.
and what should I do next
should I stay in the same college or get out of the college.

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